Financial Dominatrix Elvira Chef
I will take all control from you and drain you in a way you have never experineced before . . .
ABOUT ELVIRA CHEF
Welcome to my world. I am an Scandinavian financial dominatrix by the name Elvira Chef. I have chosen to do what I'm best at - taking from men who naturally find themselves beneath me. Not all men, just the weak ones. For the past seven years, I have embraced my dark side as a financial dominatrix, both in Scandinavia and internationally. It’s a journey that began spontaneously, always through random encounters with men who turned out to be submissive - and it ended up showing me that I had a natural talent for bringing out their true, weak beta selves. Later on, i started finding my victims online. What started as small, random experiences with financial domination has now evolved into a lifestyle, an inevitable part of my daily life, and a significant part of my personality. It has made me free and powerful on a level most betas can only dream of. Over the years, I have had several slaves under me, both loosely and on contracts. Most slaves have been in traditional findom roles, such as paypigs, cashslaves, human ATMs etc. But I also find atypical kinks and niches intriguing, though I never really bother to touch a slave or perform actual BDSM services - it’s beneath me. Unless, of course, it’s to kick you in the balls for an absurd amount of money.
My joy in living out my dominant side comes from the contrast in my personality. I am yin and yang - a balance between the innocent, empathetic and the sadistic, controlling. Those who meet me see a gentle and compassionate facade, but for the submissive betas, I reveal another side, a side of me that is demanding, greedy, and uncompromising. I find it satisfying when a man submits to me and obeys my commands, especially if it’s a man who is normally in a position of leadership or posseses control over others in his daily life. I’ll take that sense of power from you, very quickly. I particularly enjoy psychological mind games or drawn-out wallet drains, but in general, I find findom to be the most fun when I know my slave is slightly pressured, challenged, or teased by the things I put him through.
PAYMENT OPTIONS
Danske Bank
Reg. no.: 3409
Account no.: 13589844
BIC (swift add.): DABADKKK
IBAN: DK56 3000 0013 5898 44
Coinbase: Bitcoin
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SESSIONS & SERVICES
Chastity Control
I order you to be locked up in a chastity cage. When you can unlock it, who holds the keys, what happens in the meantime... I will be deciding all of that.
Blackmail
You give me personal information that I can use to blackmail you or ensure that you remain obedient and keep your commitments. It’s important to note that all details are agreed upon in a contract beforehand.
Verbal Abuse
I degrade or humiliate you verbally. Either on text, on the phone or in real life.
Wallet Drain
I will drain your bankaccount either for an agreed amount of money - or I empty the account fully. This can be done by you making one payment og through several payments during a 'draining session'.
Worship Me
You receive (clothed!) pictures or videos so you can admire and worship my beautiful face, body, or feet.
Contracts
We agree on an amount, either for a debt you owe me or a fixed sum that you will transfer daily, weekly, or monthly. Afterward, a contract is created outlining the payments, along with any other kinks and tasks that may be included while the debt or amount is being paid off.
Sissy Training
I assign you various tasks, routines, challenges, etc., within the sissy category. This can involve everything from dressing up to public humiliation, always combined with me taking money from you.
Cashmeets
We meet up and you give me money. This can happen in several ways, and you also have the option to remain completely anonymous if you prefer that.
Humiliation
I subject you to various humiliations, tasks, or challenges. I always base them on your kinks, favorite nicknames, fantasies, etc. This can happen in writing, verbally, or even in public if you are wealthy enough.
Ignore You
I ignore you, either completely or partially. This can happen in many ways and over shorter or longer periods. Fines or other forms of punishment may also be involved.
Total Power Exchange
You surrender completely, for example, by giving me access to your bankaccounts, crypto storage or logins to online portals for your finances etc.
Feet
Perhaps I’ll order you to lick my dirty shoes clean or pay for a brand-new pair. I have beautiful tiny feet in US size 6. They have made me more money than most people make in a year. Would you like to see them?
Ballbusting
I kick you in the balls, always in a public place. If you’re lucky, you might get to hide in an alley; if not, I’ll kick you down right in the middle of the street or the café.
Coaching
I coach you about findom and women. This could involve training you to be more obedient, generous, or appealing. Or maybe you need help learning how to satisfy a powerful woman. With your credit card, of course—don’t get your hopes up too high.
Ungrateful ''Dating''
I am ungrateful, like only a bitter and pissed girlfriend can be. I am dissatisfied, demanding and I push all your buttons. I might belittle or mock you - and I will keep going until you are driven completely insane by my greedy behavior and unreasonable demands.
Serve Me
Do you want to be my regular sub and serve me daily, weekly, or monthly? If so, fill out the application form further down the page. I will get back to you once it has been reviewed and my tribute fee has been paid.
...are you for fucking real?
Yes. I’m sorry if you’re a frustrated incel who’s gotten confused on the big internet and ended up here; it's tough times for you peasants. If, however, you’re just confused and need answers to a lot of questions, head straight to the 'FAQ' and take a deep breath. If you’re an angry man from a miserable internet forum who still can’t believe this is a thing, welcome to you too - and to answer your many bewildered (and aggressive, small-dick-energy) questions on the different forums: Yes, there are plenty of men who voluntarily give me thousands of dollars, so many that I’ll never have to work again. It’s okay to cry; I know it hurts to hear. But what can I say... Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
STATEMENTS FROM SUBS
* These reviews have been translated from danish to english.
DON'T CONTACT ME UNLESS...
You understand the concept of financial domination (feel free to Google "financial domination" if you're completely unfamiliar with the concept). It’s about money from the start; I am not an ordinary dominatrix offering other services that don't primarily revolve around financial domination. Do not contact me if you are not interested in the findom aspect of the sessions or services I offer. If you are stingy or not interested in paying my tribute fee when you reach out to me, I do not want to hear from you. Simply put, you are not in the target group of subs I am interested in, and I do not wish to waste either your or my time. New and inexperienced subs and paypigs are of course always welcome. I’m happy to train you and make you obedient, as long as you understand it costs money regardless of how new you are.
IMPORTANT INFO: I do not sell sex or any type of sexual services. I do not sell pictures or videos or create digital material for sale. I am neither an escort, sugar baby, nor prostitute; I am the opposite. So please spare me questions or offers of that nature - no matter how much money you have, the answer is always no.
All pictures, videos, etc., mentioned in my sessions and services are fully clothed. I do not sell nude material or material containing sexual acts or elements. I only create personal material 'on the spot' for the subs I'm in dialogue with, and always related to findom, fully clothed, and in the style you see here on the website.
CONTACT ELVIRA
Send me a message. If you want to apply to serve me for a longer period, use the application form below instead.
APPLY TO SERVE ME
Fill out this form if you wish to apply to become my sub / slave. I will only respond to requests after my tribute fee has been paid. If you would like to contact me without applying, please use the 'Mail Elvira' button at the top of the page instead.
FAQ
What is a financial dominatrix?
A financial dominatrix, also known as a findomme, goddess or financial domina, is a woman who engages in a dominance-based relationship where she controls or dominates a man through financial control. This dynamic may involve the submissive partner voluntarily giving money, gifts, or other financial resources to the dominatrix. For some, this is part of a sexual or psychological fetish, where the submissive finds satisfaction in relinquishing financial control, while the dominatrix gains satisfaction and power from receiving money and exerting control. The focus is on financial power and control rather than physical dominance.
How much does it cost?
I don’t have fixed prices for the sessions and services I offer, except for my initial tribute fee of 150 DKK. The amounts I receive from my slaves can vary greatly, as I have slaves from all walks of life, more or less. However, I’m not interested in wasting my time for small amounts or on relationships with slaves who don’t have a genuine interest in the findom aspect.
What is the 'tribute fee'?
A tribute fee is a payment that the submissive person gives to the financial dominatrix as a form of homage or recognition of her power and control. The submissive must pay to be allowed to interact with the dominatrix, to gain her attention, or simply as a way to show submission. This 150 DKK payment is made at the very start of communication—I’m not interested in hearing from slaves who aren’t willing to risk a small amount for a potential relationship. I expect significantly more than 150 DKK in a future relationship, so don’t waste your time on me if you’re stingy. Tributes are a central part of the dynamic in findom relationships, where the financial transaction is a crucial component of the power balance between the dominatrix and the submissive.
Can I stay anonymous?
Yes, I have several anonymous slaves. You have the option to send money through platforms like Throne without needing to provide any personal information to me. You can also freely transfer to my account without me ever recording you or your details in my records. This relationship is based on consent, and both parties have a clear understanding of boundaries and expectations from the very beginning. Additionally, I take discretion very seriously - I have no interest in having potential slaves who do not trust me.
Are you even real?
Yes, that's me in the pictures. You might have seen me online before on other platforms, such as Annoncelight, where I’ve advertised my services as a financial dominatrix. You can also follow me on Instagram and Twitter, where I post clips from my life as a dominatrix. Click on the Instagram icon at the top of the page if you want to see my profile. I’m always happy to verify my identity with a short video that includes one of today’s newspaper headlines. This will be done after my tribute fee is paid.
Can I meet you?
Yes, but I am only interested in cash meets that primarily involve you giving me an agreed sum of money. However, I am open to having a cup of coffee with a slave if I think you’re worth my time. I never meet with slaves until they have proven themselves to be reliable payers, and how that happens varies from case to case.
How do I become your slave?
Fill out the application form further up the page and pay my tribute fee of 150 DKK. You will receive a response within two days max, often sooner. No tribute fee = I won’t read your application.
PAYMENT OPTIONS
Danske Bank
Reg. no.: 3409
Account no.: 13589844
BIC (swift add.): DABADKKK
IBAN: DK56 3000 0013 5898 44
Coinbase: Bitcoin
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